Be Loved

I feel blessed. I look back at the Facebook feed and wonder how I got this far. My girls are growing so fast, and each day I have the chance to be my husband's wife. I literally don't need anything else. I know there are people on this planet striving for greatness. The recognition of... Continue Reading →

Too fast 

It goes too fast. I watched a video on Facebook showing a days perspective from both the mom and the little girl. What seems ordinary to us is magic to them. Kids can often see so much more than we can.  I want to see life through that lens. The lens that life is magical.... Continue Reading →

Happy Father’s Day

Dear Terry, I write this to you even though you are long gone from this earth. I don't know if you heart belonged to Jesus, so I truly can't say if we will ever see each other again. I want you to know that I am grateful for you. Every negative thing you said to... Continue Reading →


Adversity: noun, plural adversities for 2. 1.adverse fortune or fate; a condition marked by misfortune, calamity, or distress: A friend will show his or her true colors in timesof adversity. You can only grow stronger in situations that provide you with adversity. Defined above as calamity or distress. I am taking a deep breath this morning and trying to learn from adversity. What is affecting you so? Well I will tell you. I still find myself working at Starbucks. 2 years... Continue Reading →

The deep of the ocean

So many things to say. How to write them all. I worry sometimes at my inability to express all that I feel. Sometimes feelings so much can be overwhelming.  I have realized that I had suppressed so much of how I felt about things in this life that when I finally did remember what it... Continue Reading →

Happy 4th of July!

I am excited! This time last year Joseph had to close and I spent what would have been our first fourth of July just with the kiddos and my brother and at the time his new wife. This year I get to have my love with me. It will be nice to see the fireworks... Continue Reading →

The lessons I learned from Men

All of my life I have met boys and men. Each of them starting from boyfriend number one all the way down to my most amazing Joseph has taught me something. Boyfriend number one: Nelson This boyfriend lasted throughout years of learning. I was twelve when he was my boyfriend the first time and after... Continue Reading →


The other day while Joseph was studying, he looked over at me and said he wondered what my angry face looked like. I thought this was an interesting thing for him to say. So after I giggled I tried my hardest to show him what my angry face would look like were he to be... Continue Reading →

A Weekend Off

I can't remember the last time I had two days off in a row. I haven't had it happen in so long that I want to smash everything I can think of in the two days I have. I also never have the same days off as Joseph. That being said, we stayed up till... Continue Reading →


It is a different world we gamers live in. Because it is any world we choose. Which is great sometimes. What is even better? Dating a gamer. Here is why:   They think you are sexy despite the fact that you are in sweats and have crumbs on you. They are just geeked out that you are playing Skyrim... Continue Reading →

Too Long

I have decided that time can be both too long and too short. And I don't like either. My youngest will be 4 years old next Tuesday. I will be 32 this month. So many things. SO in this case time is too fast. Pushing me past my sane limits to process time, and how... Continue Reading →

What to do?

Business is the thing that steals joy and time. Unless you are doing something you love.  Then this phrase can be followed up with the saying that if you are doing what you love, you need to find a balance between doing what you love how you love it and taking the part where you... Continue Reading →

Just a moment

I dont have long to write this so I thought I would share a moment with you from night before last. Lying in my bed, reading The Count of Monte Cristo with Joe, listening to the happy sounds of minecraft, my youngest decides its time for kisses. Our cloudy kisses as I m calling them... Continue Reading →

The little things

Point cracks me up the things in this life that truly make me happy. Most of the time it is something small and might be stupid to someone else. For instance my littlest daughters is 3, 4 in October. She and I have our own kiss now. Seen cloudy with a chance of meatballs? Well... Continue Reading →

Now it’s just me

So I have been thinking about my anonymity on here. My lack of name, my code names for everyone (except my Joe) I'm done. This is my blog. My life and I'm proud to be me and share it. My name is Tiarra. I have three crazy girls and I'm divorced and I'm crazy. I... Continue Reading →

Inside out

My emotions are on high today. I'm feeling all ofit bubbling just below the surface. I'm glad none of it has anything to do with my kids which is great. The problem lies with my mom again. She has kidney stones. She went via ambulance to the emergency room last night and the cat scan... Continue Reading →

Whole again

Tis weekend was my ex husbands weekend to have our girls. I hate sharing. I'm pretty stingy with what I think is mine and I'm not gonna lie. The girls are mine. I'm not saying he doesn't deserve time with them or that he doesn't love them. I'm saying that even though his visits are... Continue Reading →

Oh my!

My mom just told me the funniest story. She was at a garage sale and across the street was the husband with a restraining order against him. Watching is wife sell all of his stuff. Apparently it wasn't a nice seperation, as my mom purchased one of those brand new soda making machines for $5.... Continue Reading →

Enjoy the little things

If I give anyone a tiny piece of brilliant advice it would be to take a moment and enjoy the little things. There are few things in this life that bring great joy. But when you enjoy the little things life is so magical. My youngest little girl gets so excited to see me when... Continue Reading →

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